UA-56202873-1
Page 342

Mata Gurbachan Kaur (1941 – 2022) & Mata Naranjan Kaur (1934 – 2020)

Path Da Bhog:

MATA GURBACHAN KAUR D/O LATE SDR HARNAM SINGH (SEREMBAN) & LATE MATA KARTAR KAUR

02.01.1941 – 16.02.2022

Wife of Late Sdr Darshan Singh (Kuala Pilah)

Dearly missed and forever cherished by:

Son & Daughter in Law
Satwant Singh (USA) and Surinder Kaur

Grandchildren:
Kuldeep Kaur
Sharandeep Kaur
Karishmadeep Kaur

Brothers & sister-in-laws , sisters and brothers-in-laws, nephews and nieces.

Second Barsi:

MATA NARANJAN KAUR D/O LATE SDR HARNAM SINGH (SEREMBAN) & LATE MATA KARTAR KAUR

1934 – 2020

Path da Bhog & Second Barsi: 6 March 2022 (Sunday), from 9.30am to 11.30am, at Gurdwara Sahib Seremban, Negeri Sembilan. Guru Ka Langar will be served thereafter.

Sardar Tehal Singh and family would like you to treat this as a personal invitation

Contact:

Devinder Singh 012 3919687

Sarjit Kaur 016 3116264

| Entry: 2 March 2022 | Source: Family





ASIA SAMACHAR is an online newspaper for Sikhs / Punjabis in Southeast Asia and beyond.Facebook | WhatsApp +6017-335-1399 | Email: editor@asiasamachar.com | Twitter | Instagram | Obituary announcements, click here |

Manjit Kaur (1931 – 2022), Seremban


MANJIT KAUR A/P DAN SINGH

4.3.1931 – 26.2.2022

Village: Chandiana, Moga

Mata Ji was the Founder and First President of the Sangam Club in Seremban. She also initiated the formation of the Mel Milaap Club in Seremban. Graceful, creative, musically inclined, cultured and soft spoken. A beautiful soul that touched the lives of many people.

Husband: Late Mehindra Singh S/O Hazara Singh

Children / Spouses:
1) Dr Baldev Singh / Sukh Charan Jit Kaur Sandhu
2) Suresh Singh (USA) / Wendy West
3) Kamaljit Kaur (USA) / Mohan Singh Gill

Grandchildren / Spouses:
1) Trishant Kaur Bassy / Rekesh Singh
2) Dheeraj Singh Bassy
3) Jesse West / Laneka West
4) Raneve West-Singh / Jon Lind
5) Dr Meera Kaur Gill
6) Navjot Singh Gill

Great-grandchildren:
1) Jayden Rahul Singh
2) Rheeya Eesha Kaur
3) Jonathan West
4) Audrey West
5) Tyce West

Path da Bhog: 12th March 2022 (Saturday), from 9:30 to 11:30am, at Gurdwara Sahib Seremban, Negeri Sembilan

Thank you, Waheguru, for sending one of your finest angels to grace our lives.
Loved beyond words, missed beyond measure.

Contact: 012-8318468 (Sukh Charan), 012-2808178 (Trish Bassy)



| Entry: 3 March 2022 | Source: Family





ASIA SAMACHAR is an online newspaper for Sikhs / Punjabis in Southeast Asia and beyond.Facebook | WhatsApp +6017-335-1399 | Email: editor@asiasamachar.com | Twitter | Instagram | Obituary announcements, click here |

Today’s Gripe: Who You Gonna Call?

0

By T Sher Singh | Opinion |

There’s never a good time to say what I have to get out of my system today. Or maybe … this IS a good time, especially when we are staring a possible genocide in the face in Ukraine.

It appears that Putin thinks he is unstoppable. The sanctions that the West has been threatening him with are in slow-motion mode and will have no impact. How could they, with Putin who has been preparing for this invasion for months, while the rest of the world has done nothing

Headline from yesterday: “NATO to deploy more troops to Eastern Europe…” Really? What’s the hurry? The Russians are already in Kyiv and you’re talking about deployment sometime in the future?

Everything about the world’s response – or the lack of it, to be more accurate! – stinks to high heaven.

First of all, seeing how the world has behaved in the last few decades, do we really think there there is either a conscience or a supply of guts left in the world?

The Rohingyas in Myanmar were massacred. The world did nothing.

Israel is currently practicing apartheid and carrying out a genocide in Palestine. With the help of US money. The world is doing nothing.

India is brutalizing its Christian, Muslim, Sikh, Dalit and other minorities. And its women. And its farmers. The world is doing nothing.

There are tens of millions of refugees, many of them children, in Europe alone. All are living in extreme hardship, and I mean e-x-t-r-e-m-e! The world is sitting on its hands.

Or worse. We are all tied up in start-ups and bitcoins and NFTs, and of course the stock market, in fact anything that will make the rich richer, but without really producing anything meaningful. Who has time any more for the tired and the poor, the huddled masses yearning to breathe free, or the wretched refuse of the world’s teeming shores. Lady Liberty still looks pretty, but she appears to be passé.

Talking of the rich, particularly the ultra rich: Have you noticed how quiet the world’s billionaires have been these last few days? I would’ve thought that each one of them – Buffet, Musk, Gates, Bezos, and the rest – would have instantly announced that they are severing all relationships with Putin and the Russians.

But alas, the ones who could’ve made a difference are busy with their frolics in outer space and other inane things. What are we going to do with them, and with countries like China, India, Israel and Pakistan, who are unabashedly offering their support to Putin, either directly or tacitly?

T. Sher Singh is a writer, editor and publisher at sikhchic.com. The Sikh media portal, now undergoing a major overhaul to bring it up-to-date with the latest gadgets, aims to be up by Spring.

RELATED STORY:

Today’s Gripe: The Royalty In Our Homes (Asia Samachar, 14 Feb 2021)

ASIA SAMACHAR is an online newspaper for Sikhs / Punjabis in Southeast Asia and beyond.Facebook | WhatsApp +6017-335-1399 | Email: editor@asiasamachar.com | Twitter | Instagram | Obituary announcements, click here 

Power of Remembering

0

By Bhupinder Singh | Opinion |

The power of remembering is very significant, but unfortunately little understood or researched. It helps us to make a meaning of our lives and sustains us with hopes amid hopeless situations, and meltdowns. Remembering is one of the things that make us human. Despite what is already known about the significance of power of remembering it is not emphasized enough, the result is we are unable to benefit from it.

Let us start from the first page of Guru Granth Sahib, where Guru Nanak Dev Ji starts his magnum opus composition Japji Sahib by defining the power that created the Universe. That definition is known as “Mangla Charan”, starts with One Power (Ik Onkar) and concluding with the word Gurparshad (which means grace). Then Guru Ji starts the actual bani where he shares how Gurparshad is obtained. The very title of the bani Jap means to recite to remember and the addition of Ji and Sahib are out of reverence. The 38 stanzas of Japji Sahib are stepping rungs of the ladder for merger with that One Power. The entire composition is an exposition of significance of remembrance, and most scholars are of this viewpoint that the entire Guru Granth Sahib is an exposition of Japji Sahib. So, we can see that remembering is the essential aspect of the Sikh faith. Let us explore some facets of remembering:  

1. CENTRAL THEME OF THE SCRIPTURE

The power of Remembrance being the central theme of Guru Granth sahib, Gurbani extols us to remember God with every breath as:

ਸਿਮਰਤ ਸਾਸ ਗਿਰਾਸ ਪੂਰਨ ਬਿਸੁਆਸ ਕਿਉ ਮਨਹੁ ਬਿਸਾਰੀਐ ਜੀਉ ॥

“Simarat saas giraas pooran bisuaas kiau manahu bisaareeaai jeeau.”  (SGGS, Pg. No. 80)

Translation: With every breath intake and exhalation I remember Him in meditation. Thus, I have arrived at this conviction, that He should not ever be forgotten.

ਪ੍ਰਭ ਕੈ ਸਿਮਰਨਿ ਉਧਰੇ ਮੂਚਾ ॥ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਕੈ ਸਿਮਰਨਿ ਤ੍ਰਿਸਨਾ ਬੁਝੈ ॥

“Prabh kaa simaran sabh te uoochaa. Prabh kai simaran trishana bhoojai.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 263)

Translation: In the remembrance of God, many are saved (from sins in this world and salvation after death). In the remembrance of God, thirst (for material possessions) is quenched.

From the above two quotes the significance of remembrance is underscored, it is also the central theme of scripture. Guru Nanak Dev Ji has declared that besides remembrance all other pursuits are fruitless on Page No. 728 of SGGS.

2. SIGNIFICANCE OF REMEMBRANCE

Guru Ji says remembrance makes me alive, and forgetting makes me dead in these words:

ਆਖਾ ਜੀਵਾ ਵਿਸਰੈ ਮਰਿ ਜਾਉ ॥

“Aakhaa jeevaa visarai mar jaau.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 9)

Translation: Remembering I live; forgetting (Him) I die.

ਊਚ ਅਥਾਹ ਬੇਅੰਤ ਸੁਆਮੀ ਸਿਮਰਿ ਸਿਮਰਿ ਹਉ ਜੀਵਾਂ ਜੀਉ ॥੧॥

“Uooch athaeh bea(n)t suaamee simar simar hau jeevaa(n) jeeau. 1.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 99)

Translation: Highest of the High, Unfathomable, Infinite Lord and Master: Continually remembering You in deep meditation, I live. ||1||

So, for Guru Ji living has been equated to remembering. If that is true, then the opposite must also be true. That means forgetting is like dying. Sure enough, Guru Ji says:

ਪਰਮੇਸਰ ਤੇ ਭੁਲਿਆਂ ਵਿਆਪਨਿ ਸਭੇ ਰੋਗ ॥

“Paramesar te bhuliaa(n) viaapan sabhe rog.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 135)

Translation: Forgetting the Transcendent Lord (in pursuit of false worldly material pleasures), one is affected by all sorts of maladies.

The act of remembrance has been beautifully captured in a few words. In our scheme of things water and food are essential for survival. We not only consider three square meals as important for survival, but also consider in between snacks as also equally essential. Even in the prisons when the prisoners refuse to eat, they are force-fed out of concern for their health and survival. The deprivation of food, either forced or voluntary can have a significant impact on the physical wellbeing but also can impair mentally. This vital link has been exploited to punish, bribe, to breakdown and to coerce the victims into submission. We also use food for social celebration, for building relationships and to win someone’s heart. All societies, civilizations, cultures, races etc. celebrate food which bears testimony to its significance.

But can we think of someone for whom food is not that essential and who has found a better source of nourishment over food?  Yes, we can see that in Guru Nanak Dev Ji. For him food was not essential for survival, but remembrance was. Bhai Mardana, who was Guru Ji’s companion on his long journeys, called Udassis felt the pangs of hunger like us. We can all relate to the pangs of hunger but let us try to see what sustained Guru Ji.

Guru Ji along with Mardana reached Harappa during the first journey. Harappa was a famous city after which the ancient Civilization of Harappa was known. It is also known as Indus Valley Civilization being on the banks of Indus River. As Guru Ji preferred solitude and wilderness he always stayed outside the cities and villages. When they reached the outskirts of Harappa Guru Ji asked Mardana if he was hungry. Mardana gave an astute reply saying you know better. Guru Ji asked him to go to the city for they will give him food, clothes, and also honor him. Mardana went into the city, was pleasantly surprised by being offered food without asking or begging. After spending some time Mardana returned in the evening with a loaded bag on his head, full of offerings. Guru Ji asked him to throw away all the offerings that he had received reminding him that those were of no use to them. Guru ji further added, “We have renounced all worldly wealth and cannot take these with us.” Mardana asked Guru Ji, “Food is essential for survival. Then on top of that we are travelling bare footed, so hunger, exhaustion, stress will be the toll, how can we survive with nothing? We can use these when needed.” Guru Ji clarified to him that food is not essential for survival, but the sustenance is provided by remembrance of beloved God. Guru Ji’s words were:

ਨਾਨਕ ਭਗਤਾ ਭੁਖ ਸਾਲਾਹਣੁ ਸਚੁ ਨਾਮੁ ਆਧਾਰੁ ॥

“Nanak bhagataa bhukh saalaahan sach naam aadhaar.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 466)

Translation: O Nanak, the hunger of the devotees is to praise Lord; the True Name is their sustenance.   

Guru Ji further added, “Mardana! You have been assigned the services of singing praises, so try to experience the sustenance, support that it can provide. True living is when that becomes the support and sustenance.”  There only Guru Ji uttered and sang the shabad with these words:

ਮੈ ਤਾਂ ਨਾਮੁ ਤੇਰਾ ਆਧਾਰੁ ॥ ਤੂੰ ਦਾਤਾ ਕਰਣਹਾਰੁ ਕਰਤਾਰੁ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥

“Mai taa(n) naam teraa aadhaar. Too(n) daataa karanahaar karataar. 1. Rahaau.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 354)

Translation: The Naam, the Name of the Lord, is my only Support. You are the Great Giver, the Doer, and the Creator. ||1||Pause||

In fact, here in the shabad Guru Ji sited 4 examples to share the consequences of forgetting, before going into adoration mode, by declaring that none is great as You. Further adding that no one else is good enough worth remembering and emulating. Therefore, for me You are only worth remembering as You alone are the Doer. All rich, poor, powerful, intellectuals absorbed in exercising their endowments are enabled by your blessings alone.

For Guru Ji, remembering the all-powerful God is the only food that nourishes him completely – body, mind, and soul. The soul food is the ultimate food which nourishes both mind and body, providing bliss and aliveness to them. However, we have compartmentalized these where food is treated as body nourishment, books are for knowledge, the food for mind. But what about food for soul? None. That is a big perception gap between our and Guru Ji’s. In Guru Ji’s perception, soul food becomes not just nourishment for soul but body and mind as well. This is what Guru Ji wanted to share with mankind in his long journeys. Guru Ji has clearly spelt out that only thing that he has to offer is Naam:

ਸਚਾ ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤ ਨਾਮੁ ਭੋਜਨੁ ਆਇਆ ॥

“Sachaa a(n)mrit naam bhojan aaiaa.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 150)

Translation: The Ambrosial Nectar of the True Name has become my food.

Guru Ji blessed this spiritual food to Mardana and his pangs of hunger subsided. But when we are hungry or down, we look for comfort in food. Even when we entertain ourselves watching movies or at social engagements, we use food to fill us and lift us up. The search for finding the connection of soul food providing nourishment was answered by Gary Zukav in his book “The Heart of the Soul”. He says succinctly as, “Emotional awareness is the first step in learning how to receive the nourishment the Universe provides for you.” This is the first step Guru Ji taught us over 500 years back. Eating food can provide nourishment to the body, but it cannot drive away mind’s hunger. Guru Ji says remembrance is the food that provides complete nourishment, driving away all hungers. That food is remembrance imbibed by singing it, which Guru Ji labelling it as Keertan. Keertan means singing praises in remembrance, it is not just listening to a genre of music, as a mood enhancer or a passive act. However, if Keertan is being sung, participation of listeners is there, melody is being enjoyed, words are understood, meaning is grasped, connection is built, then mind will be transported to another realm totally fulfilled. Keertan leads to remembering the creator. Guru Arjan Dev Ji posed this question about where remembrance takes place non-stop and then provided the answer himself.

ਸੋ ਅਸਥਾਨੁ ਬਤਾਵਹੁ ਮੀਤਾ ॥ ਜਾ ਕੈ ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਕੀਰਤਨੁ ਨੀਤਾ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥

“So asathaan bataavahu meetaa. Jaa kai har har keeratan neetaa. 1. Rahaau.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 385)

Translation: Show me that place, O friend, where the Keertan of the Lord’s Praises are forever sung. ||1||Pause||

Guru Ji has provided the answer to the question in these words:

ਸਾਧਸੰਗਿ ਹਰਿ ਕੀਰਤਨੁ ਗਾਈਐ ॥ ਇਹੁ ਅਸਥਾਨੁ ਗੁਰੂ ਤੇ ਪਾਈਐ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ਦੂਜਾ ॥੭॥੫੮॥

“Saadhasang har keeratan gaieeaai. Eih asathaan guroo te paieeaai. 1. Rahaau dhoojaa. 7.58.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 385)

Translation: In the Saadh Sangat, the Company of the Holy, sing the Kirtan of the Lord’s Praises.

This state is experienced through the (grace of the) Guru. ||1||Second Pause||7||58||

Bhai Mardana Ji experienced this state through grace, same grace is available to us as well. We will first have to remember God and ask for grace to experience that nourishment and fulfillment. The feeling ecstasy experienced in remembrance is expressed in Gurbani in these words:

ਤੁਧੁ ਚਿਤਿ ਆਏ ਮਹਾ ਅਨੰਦਾ ਜਿਸੁ ਵਿਸਰਹਿ ਸੋ ਮਰਿ ਜਾਏ ॥

“Tudh chit aae mahaa anandhaa jis visareh so mar jaae.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 749)

Translation: When You come to mind, I am totally in bliss. One who forgets You just dies (spiritually).

3. REMEMBER NOT TO FORGET

Remembrance requires efforts through our attention and awareness. Remembering is sending a message that He is the most important in our life. The act of remembrance is an act of faith that brings us into the presence of God. It is simultaneously an act of reaffirmation of our trust in Him. The act of remembrance is an act of meditation as well. Guru Ji shares with us how to pray for remembrance in these words:

ਵਿਸਰੁ ਨਾਹੀ ਦਾਤਾਰ ਆਪਣਾ ਨਾਮੁ ਦੇਹੁ ॥ ਗੁਣ ਗਾਵਾ ਦਿਨੁ ਰਾਤਿ ਨਾਨਕ ਚਾਉ ਏਹੁ ॥੮॥੨॥੫॥੧੬॥

“Vissar naahee dhaataar aapanaa naam dheh. Gun gaavaa dhin raat naanak chaau eho. 8.2.5.16.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 762)

Translation: Never forget me, O Great Giver – please bless me with Your Naam. To sing Your Glorious praises day and night – O Nanak, this is my heart-felt desire. ||8||2||5||16||

Forgetting doesn’t require any special efforts, it just happens naturally. It’s like the natural downwards gravitational pull. While remembering requires effort as if pulling upwards against the pull of gravity. About those who forget Guru Ji says:

ਵਿਸਰਿਆ ਜਿਨ੍ਹ੍ਹ ਨਾਮੁ ਤੇ ਭੁਇ ਭਾਰੁ ਥੀਏ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥

“Visariaa jin(h) naam te bhui bhaar the’ee. 1. Rahaau.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 488)          

Translation: Those who forget the Naam, the Name of the Lord, are a burden on the earth. ||1||Pause||

It is imperative that we remind ourselves to remember our Creator in order to rise above the gravitational downward pull of forgetting.

4. DON’T FORGET TO REMEMBER

As we saw remembrance is not self-driven but requires deliberate efforts. The human mind has on an average processes 12,000 to 60,000 thoughts a day. So, imagine how easy it is to get swayed by these spontaneous thoughts. Therefore, having a thought not to forget is a very significant development that is a result of efforts and blessings. Looking at the odds, we can say our mind can be our biggest stumbling block. However, if we observe our mind, exercise the supervisory control over it and stop it from flowing with the thoughts, that will be a very significant growth. This can be initiated when we start observing our mind and monitor the flow of thoughts. Every time we can catch it taking flight, we need to stop it from flowing with the thought by asking it to comeback:

ਕਹਾ ਚਲਹੁ ਮਨ ਰਹਹੁ ਘਰੇ ॥

“Kahaa chalahu mun rahahu ghare.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 414)          

Translation: Where are you going? O mind, it is better to remain in your own home.

This is kind of policing on the wandering nature of mind will produce a calming effect. If we can manage it skillfully, exercise a measured control over it, then mind can become our biggest ally. So, let us ask what needs to be done to remember:

ਹਰਿ ਜੀਉ ਆਗੈ ਕਰੀ ਅਰਦਾਸਿ ॥ ਸਾਧੂ ਜਨ ਸੰਗਤਿ ਹੋਇ ਨਿਵਾਸੁ ॥ ਕਿਲਵਿਖ ਦੁਖ ਕਾਟੇ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਪ੍ਰਗਾਸੁ ॥੯॥

“Har jeeau aagai karee aradhaas. Saadhoo jan sangat hoi nivaas. Kilavikh dhukh kaaTe har naam pragaas. 9.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 415)          

Translation: I offer my prayer to the Lord, that I might dwell in the Saadh Sangat, the Company of the Holy. There, sins, and sufferings are erased, and one is illumined with the Lord’s Name. ||9||

Guru Ji has emphasized the role of company of the holy, as it has great influence on the flights of our thoughts. Guru Ji has shared this insight in these words:

ਜੈਸਾ ਸੇਵੈ ਤੈਸੋ ਹੋਇ ॥੪॥

“Jaisaa sevai taiso hoi. 4.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 223)          

Translation: They become just like the One they serve (through devotional service). ||4||

Bhagat Kabir’s Bani in Guru Granth Sahib also endorses the significant influence of company on the thoughts of person in these words:

ਕਬੀਰ ਮਨੁ ਪੰਖੀ ਭਇਓ ਉਡਿ ਉਡਿ ਦਹ ਦਿਸ ਜਾਇ ॥ ਜੋ ਜੈਸੀ ਸੰਗਤਿ ਮਿਲੈ ਸੋ ਤੈਸੋ ਫਲੁ ਖਾਇ ॥੮੬॥

“Kabir man pa(n)khee bhio udd udd dheh dhis jai. Joe jaisee sa(n)gat milai so taiso fal khai . 86.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 1369)       

Translation: Kabir, the mind has become a bird; it soars and flies in the ten directions. According to the company it keeps, so are the fruits it eats. ||86||

So, the company of spiritually inclined will nurture the same desire in us as well. That companionship will help us to soar the to new heights in our inner development, which will improve work ethics and the most important will be helping in our spiritual flight. If one wishes to find God then company of the devotees should be joined, where the habit of not forgetting to remember will be reinforced. The benefit of such an effort is depicted in these words:

ਚਿਤਹਿ ਚਿਤੁ ਸਮਾਇ ਤ ਹੋਵੈ ਰੰਗੁ ਘਨਾ ॥

“Chiteh chit samai ta hovai rung ghanaa.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 1362)

Translation: When the consciousness is absorbed in then great joy and bliss are found.

The remembrance of the supreme consciousness through our own consciousness and awareness, we will experience an ever-increasing bliss in the process.

5. PRACTICES – INTENTIONAL, DELIBERATE PATTERNS OF BEHAVIOR

Guru Ji has provided us with a beautiful example of practice of remembrance in these words:

ਊਡੇ ਊਡਿ ਆਵੈ ਸੈ ਕੋਸਾ ਤਿਸੁ ਪਾਛੈ ਬਚਰੇ ਛਰਿਆ ॥ ਤਿਨ ਕਵਣੁ ਖਲਾਵੈ ਕਵਣੁ ਚੁਗਾਵੈ ਮਨ ਮਹਿ ਸਿਮਰਨੁ ਕਰਿਆ ॥੩॥

“Uoodde uoodd aavai sai kosaa tis paachhai bachare chhariaa. Tin kavan khalaavai kavan chugaavai man meh simaran kariaa. 3.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 10)

Translation: The Demoiselle crane fly hundreds of miles, leaving their young ones behind.

Who feeds them, and who teaches them to feed themselves? Have you ever thought of this in your mind? ||3||

By providing an example of Demoiselle crane chicks left behind in the harsh Siberian winter, Guru Ji says that the sustenance is provided to them through remembrance of their mothers. He poses the question by asking how they survive the harsh winter there when they are all by themselves and don’t know how to look for food in midst of snow carpeted landscape? Guru Ji says these Demoiselle cranes take a long flight to come to Indo-Gangetic plains during winter months, leaving behind their tiny offspring as their bodies are not strong enough for the long arduous flights. These tiny fragile off-springs survive without leaving their nest in search of food. How? Guru Ji says mother crane remembers her offspring left behind, and in the process the offspring get their nourishment.

There is another example of turtles provided in Guru Granth Sahib to illustrate the power of remembrance. The turtles leave their eggs on the shore, and they return to water. But the remembrance of the mother turtle provides the nourishment and the warmth to the eggs on the shore. Finally, when the eggs are hatched the baby turtles break the eggshell to come out and join mother turtles in water.

ਕੁੰਮੀ ਜਲ ਮਾਹਿ ਤਨ ਤਿਸੁ ਬਾਹਰਿ ਪੰਖ ਖੀਰੁ ਤਿਨ ਨਾਹੀ ॥ ਪੂਰਨ ਪਰਮਾਨੰਦ ਮਨੋਹਰ ਸਮਝਿ ਦੇਖੁ ਮਨ ਮਾਹੀ ॥੨॥

“Ku(n)mee jal maeh tan tis baahar pa(n)kh kheer tin naahee. Pooran paramaana(n)dh manohar samajh dhekh man maahee. 2.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 488)

Translation: The mother turtle is in the water, and her babies are out of the water (in the sand). Babies have no wings (to get them food), nor (mother turtle) has teats (to provide milk to feed babies).

The Perfect Lord, the embodiment of supreme bliss, the Fascinating Lord takes care of them. See this, and understand it in your mind||2||

These real-life observations powerfully underscore the power of remembrance, and simultaneously affirm the power of God, thus nurturing faith.

6. REVISITING HISTORY

There is another piece of history of Bhai Gonda during Guru Har Rai’s time demonstrating power of remembrance. Bhai Gonda was assigned by Guru Ji to go to Kabul to teach about Naam there along with that impart knowledge of singing hymns. He took the challenging assignment of preaching Sikh faith in an Islamic country. One morning while reciting Japji Sahib in the morning, he fixed his thoughts on the Guru. He pictured himself clasping to Guru Ji’s feet, holding them tightly. He was very passionately absorbed in his own act, totally oblivious of the rest. Far away in Keeratpur Guru Ji was in the diwan hall. He at once became aware of Bhai Gonda’s action of clasping to his feet. Guru Ji not wanting to disturb Bhai Gonda’s concentration did not move his feet. The keertan darbar was over; still Guru Ji did not get up to go back to his house. Several hours passed; at mid-day an attendant came to inform Guru Ji that lunch was ready. Guru Ji did not respond back or move. The attendant went back. Then the same attendant returned in the evening to inform that dinner was ready. Again, Guru Ji did not utter a word or move, so he went back. Finally, Bhai Gonda woke up and came back to himself. He opened his eyes and bowed. Saying “Sat Naam Waheguru” he let his hand release the clasp of Guru Ji’s feet. Then Guru Ji finally got up, went home, and had his dinner. Guru Ji had spent whole day without food or water just not to disturb Bhai Gonda’s remembrance.

There is significant reason to engage in remembrance and that is:

ਏ ਮਨ ਜੈਸਾ ਸੇਵਹਿ ਤੈਸਾ ਹੋਵਹਿ ਤੇਹੇ ਕਰਮ ਕਮਾਇ ॥ ਆਪਿ ਬੀਜਿ ਆਪੇ ਹੀ ਖਾਵਣਾ ਕਹਣਾ ਕਿਛੂ ਨ ਜਾਇ ॥੭॥

“E(h) mun jaisaa seveh taisaa hoveh tehe karam kamai. Aap beej aape hee khaavanaa kahanaa kichhoo na jai. 7.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 755)

Translation: O mind, as you serve/follow, so do you become, and so are the deeds that you do and become. Whatever you yourself plant, that is what you shall have to eat; no one can violate this natural law. ||7||

This same precept revibrates in the famous English idiom “As you sow so shall you reap.” When we hear, see, feel the gift of remembrance the Gurus have left to us, we enter the realm of ecstasy. The embrace of remembrance transports us into a circular dance of time, where the past does not remain the past, but is fashioned as present thus elevating the spirit. The act of remembrance builds positive feeling within. Guru Ji have expressed the benefit of remembrance in these words:

ਪ੍ਰਭ ਚਿਤਿ ਆਏ ਪੂਰਨ ਸਭ ਕਾਜ ॥ ਹਰਿ ਬਿਸਰਤ ਸਭ ਕਾ ਮੁਹਤਾਜ ॥੩॥

“Prabh chit aae pooran sabh kaaj. Har bisarat sabh kaa muhataaj. 3.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 802)

Translation: When God comes into my consciousness, all my affairs are successfully resolved.

Forgetting the Lord, one becomes subservient to all. ||3||

Guru Arjan Dev Ji has shared the benefits of remembrance succinctly for our inspiration to make remembrance part of our daily life.

ਸਿਮਰਿ ਸਿਮਰਿ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਭਏ ਅਨੰਦਾ ਦੁਖ ਕਲੇਸ ਸਭਿ ਨਾਠੇ ॥

ਗੁਨ ਗਾਵਤ ਧਿਆਵਤ ਪ੍ਰਭੁ ਅਪਨਾ ਕਾਰਜ ਸਗਲੇ ਸਾਂਠੇ ॥੧॥

“Simar simar prabh bhe anandhaa dhukh kales sabh naaThe.

Gun gaavat dhiaavat prabh apanaa kaaraj sagale saa(n)The. 1.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 625)

Translation: Remembering, remembering God in meditation, bliss ensues, and one is rid of all suffering and pain.

Singing the Glorious Praises of God, and meditating on Him, all my affairs have been fixed. ||1||

Guru Ji sees that remembrance brings the divine power into our lives that he is not ready to forego it in any scenario:

ਸਰੀਰ ਸ੍ਵਸਥ ਖੀਣ ਸਮਏ ਸਿਮਰੰਤਿ ਨਾਨਕ ਰਾਮ ਦਾਮੋਦਰ ਮਾਧਵਹ ॥੫੦॥

“Shreer swasth kheen sammae simranth nanak raam damodar maadhaveh.” (SGGS, Pg. No.1358)

Translation: Whether his body is healthy or sick, let Nanak meditate in remembrance on You, Lord.

Guru Ji asks us to pray for remembrance in these words:

ਕਬਹੂ ਨ ਬਿਸਰੈ ਹੀਏ ਮੋਰੇ ਤੇ ਨਾਨਕ ਦਾਸ ਇਹੀ ਦਾਨੁ ਮੰਗਾ ॥੨॥੧੫॥੧੦੧॥

“Kabahoo na bisarai he’ee moore te Nanak dhaas ihee daan mangaa. 2.15.101.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 824)

Translation: May I never forget You from my heart; slave Nanak prays for this blessing. ||2||15||101||

 Before concluding, let us remember the miraculous benefits in remembrance as told by Guru Ji:

ਜਿਸੁ ਸਿਮਰਤ ਦੁਖ ਡੇਰਾ ਢਹੈ ॥ ਜਿਸੁ ਸਿਮਰਤ ਜਮੁ ਕਿਛੂ ਨ ਕਹੈ ॥

“Jis simarat dhukh deraa ddahai. Jis simrat jam kichhoo na kahai.”  (SGGS, Pg. No. 182)

Translation: Remembering Him in meditation, the root of sorrow is removed, and the fear of death departs.

ਸੋ ਪ੍ਰਭੁ ਚਿਤਿ ਨ ਆਵਈ ਕਿਤੜਾ ਦੁਖੁ ਗਣਾ ॥

“So parabh chit na aavae kittra dukg gana.” (SGGS, Pg. No. 133)

Translation: Those who do not remember God, they undergo tremendous pain and suffering.

So, let us conclude with a prayer to Guru for grace so that we can remember Almighty. Guru Ji bless us with the same blessings that you showered on people during your journeys:

“Tainuu Kartar Chitt Aaway”

Translation: May you remember Creator.

References:

  1. Singh, Bhai Vir. Shree Guru Nanak Chamatkar. Vol. 1. Pages 120-123.
  2. Zukav, Gary and Francis, Linda. The Heart of the Soul. (2001). Pages 231-232.
  3. Singh, Kartar and Dhillon, G. S. Stories from Sikh History. Book III. Hemkunt Press (1994)
  4. www.Sikhitothemax.com

Bhupinder ‘Bo’ Singh, Houston. Born in Bhamo, Myanmar, he now lives in Houston, US, where he runs a manufacturing company formed with his son. A mechanical engineer by training, he has authored a number of books, including Connecting with the Master – A collection of essays on topics related to Sikhism (2006) and In Bully’s Eyes – An Illustrated Children’s book on Bullying(2019).

RELATED STORY:

Akal Takht: A Journey from Original Concept to Emerging Digital World (Asia Samachar, 1 June 2021)

ASIA SAMACHAR is an online newspaper for Sikhs / Punjabis in Southeast Asia and beyond.Facebook | WhatsApp +6017-335-1399 | Email: editor@asiasamachar.com | Twitter | Instagram | Obituary announcements, click here 

Chakria is Canada’s boxing middleweight champ

0
IN THE BAG: Sukhdeep Singh Chakria after beating Jordan Balmer to become Canada boxing middleweight champion – Photo: Mette-Margrethe Kristiansen


By Asia Samachar | 
Canada |

Sukhdeep Singh Chakria, who hails from a generation of farmers in Punjab and turned to professional boxing in Canada, has done it once again. He showed his prowess in the ring to maintain the IBA Intercontinental Middleweight title.

On Saturday (20 Feb 2022), he defeated Richard ‘The Frog’ Holmes in a much-anticipated International Boxing Association bout to crown himself the Canada middleweight boxing champion.

Sukhdeep’s rise makes an interesting story. The 29-year-old fighter, who switches between orthodox and southpaw during fights, came to Canada after an excellent amateur career in India.

Boxing has been a foundational part of his life since Sukhdeep was 13. He grew up in a village in Chakar, Punjab, hailing from an endless generations of farmers in Panjab.

He used to hang about the yard of the Sher-E Punjab Sports Academy watching as a bystander. Until, that is, the day that a confrontation with one of the Academy’s boxers led to a critical decision: leave the academy grounds for good, or join the academy and learn how to settle disputes in a professional manner, according to an entry at his website.

He started making good in boxing. He had captured gold medals at the 2012 Senior National Boxing Championship and 2011 Boxing Super Cup. In 2016, he also trained with the Indian Olympic Boxing Team in Ireland.

In 2018, United Boxing Promotions (UBP) signed the then Indian super middleweight prospect for his professional debut.

Canada gave him the big break. In November 2019, he first won the IBA Intercontinental Middleweight title when he defeated Argentina’s Hector Carlos Santana by first round TKO. He required less than three minutes to dispatch Santana’s quest and earn the title for himself.

Since turning pro in Canada and hooking up with Toronto-based trainer Ryan Grant, Chakria has established himself as a rising middleweight star.

Sukhdeep Singh Chakria (left) and Jordan Balmer during pre-match weighing in their OBF bout

Sukhdeep told ProBoxing-Fans in an interview published last year that After performing well in the village, state-wide and national competitions, the family that started the academy in his village presented him with an opportunity to come to Canada periodically and train with Ryan Grant, his current coach and confidant.

“I would come for periods at a time and realise that the training, expertise and resources in Canada were helping me develop at a faster rate than my training in Punjab, so I tried to come as often as I could in my early 20s.

“When I transitioned to professional and signed with Tyler Buxton at United Promotions, I decided that Canada is where I need to be to elevate my game and get to the next level,” he said.

You can Sukhdeep him at his Instagram.





RELATED STORY:

British Sikh twin brothers smashing it at Muay Thai boxing (Asia Samachar, 26 Feb 2022)



ASIA SAMACHAR is an online newspaper for Sikhs / Punjabis in Southeast Asia and beyond.Facebook | WhatsApp +6017-335-1399 | Email: editor@asiasamachar.com | Twitter | Instagram | Obituary announcements, click here 

Parvinderjit Singh Dhillon (1978 – 2022), Ipoh

PARVINDERJIT SINGH DHILLON S/O DALIP SINGH & SWARN KAUR

18.9.1978 – 27.2.2022

He was an amazing husband, father, brother, uncle and friend. His infectious smile never failed to captivate everyone always. It was a joy to be around him, but he was taken away from us suddenly at just 43 years of age.

Leaving Behind:

Wife: Jeslynder Kaur

Children :
Virender Singh Dhillon
Ashvinder Singh Dhillon

Siblings & Spouses:
Jesminderjeet Kaur Dhillon & Surinder Singh
Sharanjeet Kaur Dhillon & Dave Davies
Karanjeet Kaur Dhillon & Navin Sharma

Nieces & Nephews:
Harry Davies
Matthew Davies
Joseph Davies
Dhiraj Singh Chahal
Kyra Kaur Chahal
Gia Kaur Bhargav

And a Host of Relatives & Friends.

Saskar: 4pm, 1 March 2022 (Tuesday) at Buntong Electric Crematorium, Perak

Cortege leaves from residence at 70, Jalan Rishah 3, Taman Rishah, 30100 Ipoh.

Prayers shall be held as follows at Gurdwara Sahib Buntong on 12 March 2022 (Saturday)

Asa Di Var on 12 March 2022 (Saturday), from 6.30am to 8.15am followed by Path Da Phog at 10.00am to 12.00pm. Guru Ka Langgar shall be served thereafter.

The family expresses its sincere appreciation & heartfelt thanks to relatives & friends for their condolences, prayers & support during their recent bereavement.

Contact:

Navin Sharma 012-3395187

Boy 012-4108382

| Entry: 28 Feb 2022 | Source: Family





ASIA SAMACHAR is an online newspaper for Sikhs / Punjabis in Southeast Asia and beyond.Facebook | WhatsApp +6017-335-1399 | Email: editor@asiasamachar.com | Twitter | Instagram | Obituary announcements, click here |

Sikh Doctrines on Women Emancipation and Empowerment

0
L-R: Mayor Bobbie Singh-Allen, British army officer Preet Chandi who conquered the South Pole, India hockey sensation Navjot Kaur, Sikh woman from Malaya in Kirkby and Malaysian national futsal player Steffi Sarge Kaur

By Dr. Devinder Pal Singh Sikhi |

Women represent half of all humanity, yet they continue to face discrimination in various parts of the world. The feminist movement has done much to lessen gender discrimination in western societies. However, women in much of the world still face severe difficulties, such as violence, illiteracy, economic and social deprivation [1]. It is increasingly recognized that better education and economic empowerment of women can play a significant role in uplifting the economic level of impoverished areas of the world and lowering birth rates, which is crucial for addressing climate change. 

Having noted several general rituals and traditions of his time, Guru Nanak recognized that men often degraded women. They were thought of as property and treated as lowly and unworthy. He condemned these practices. Thus, several centuries ahead of the feminist movement, Guru Nanak spoke out against gender discrimination in India’s highly male-dominated environment. He opposed established orthodoxy with the radical assertion that women were worthy of praise and equal to men. Besides, God is gender neutral. It is both man and woman, and its creative aspect is portrayed as that of a mother [2]:

ਆਪੇ ਪੁਰਖੁ ਆਪੇ ਹੀ ਨਾਰੀ ॥ 

Āpe purakẖ āpe hī nārī.

God (Creator) is both man and woman. (M. 1, SGGS, p 1020)

Guru Nanak proclaimed that the same divine essence pervades through both men and women.

ਨਾਰੀ ਪੁਰਖ ਸਬਾਈ ਲੋਇ ॥

Nārī purakẖ sabā▫ī lo▫e. 

Among all the women and the men, God’s essence is pervading. (M. 1, SGGS, p. 223)

Bhagat Kabir, another author of Sri Guru Granth Sahib, articulates that man and women are all forms of the Creator (God).  

ਏਤੇ ਅਉਰਤ ਮਰਦਾ ਸਾਜੇ ਏ ਸਭ ਰੂਪ ਤੁਮ੍ਹ੍ਹਾਰੇ ॥

Ėṯe a▫uraṯ marḏā sāje e sabẖ rūp ṯumĥāre.

(O Lord!) You have fashioned all these men and women. All these are Your forms. (Bhagat Kabir, SGGS, p. 1349)   

Gur Nanak asserted that rather than being denigrated and mistreated, women should be cherished and respected. He proclaimed:

ਭੰਡਿ ਜੰਮੀਐ ਭੰਡਿ ਨਿੰਮੀਐ ਭੰਡਿ ਮੰਗਣੁ ਵੀਆਹੁ ॥ ਭੰਡਹੁ ਹੋਵੈ ਦੋਸਤੀ ਭੰਡਹੁ ਚਲੈ ਰਾਹੁ ॥ ਭੰਡੁ ਮੁਆ ਭੰਡੁ ਭਾਲੀਐ ਭੰਡਿ ਹੋਵੈ ਬੰਧਾਨੁ ॥ ਸੋ ਕਿਉ ਮੰਦਾ ਆਖੀਐ ਜਿਤੁ ਜੰਮਹਿ ਰਾਜਾਨ ॥ ਭੰਡਹੁ ਹੀ ਭੰਡੁ ਊਪਜੈ ਭੰਡੈ ਬਾਝੁ ਨ ਕੋਇ ॥ ਨਾਨਕ ਭੰਡੈ ਬਾਹਰਾ ਏਕੋ ਸਚਾ ਸੋਇ ॥ 

Bẖand jammī▫ai bẖand nimmī▫ai bẖand mangaṇ vī▫āhu. Bẖandahu hovai ḏosṯī bẖandahu cẖalai rāhu. Bẖand mu▫ā bẖand bẖālī▫ai bẖand hovai banḏẖān. So ki▫o manḏā ākẖī▫ai jiṯ jamėh rājān. Bẖandahu hī bẖand ūpjai bẖandai bājẖ na ko▫e. Nānak bẖandai bāhrā eko sacẖā so▫e.

We all are born of women; we are conceived in a woman’s womb. To a woman, one is engaged and married. One makes friendship with a woman; through woman, future generations are born. When a woman (wife) dies, a person marries another one; we are bound with the world through woman. So why should we talk ill of her? From her, kings are born. From a woman, a woman is born; without women, there would be no one at all. O Nanak, God alone is without a woman. (M. 1, SGGS, p 473).        

Guru Nanak and his successor Sikh Gurus actively encouraged women’s participation as equals in worship, society, and the battleground. They supported freedom of speech, and women were encouraged to participate in all religious activities, including the Sri Guru Granth Sahib’s reading. Guru Nanak granted equality to women by admitting them into the Sangat (congregation) without any restrictions or reservations. He asserted that his message was meant as much for women as for men. Guru Angad, the second Sikh Guru, encouraged the education of all Sikhs, both men and women [3]. Guru Amar Das, the third Sikh Guru, disfavored the use of the veil by women. He encouraged women to take up a leadership role in society and assigned women to supervise some communities of disciples. In addition, he forbade the practice of Sati (widow burning) and female infanticide and encouraged remarriage of widows [4-5]. Guru Amar Das proclaimed:

ਸਤੀਆ ਏਹਿ ਨ ਆਖੀਅਨਿ ਜੋ ਮੜਿਆ ਲਗਿ ਜਲੰਨ੍ਹ੍ਹਿ॥ ਨਾਨਕ ਸਤੀਆ ਜਾਣੀਅਨ੍ਹ੍ਹਿ ਜਿ ਬਿਰਹੇ ਚੋਟ ਮਰੰਨ੍ਹ੍ਹਿ॥

Saṯī▫ā ehi na ākẖī▫an jo maṛi▫ā lag jalaʼnniĥ. Nānak saṯī▫ā jāṇī▫aniĥ jė birhe cẖot maraʼnniĥ.

Do not call them ‘satee’, who burn alive on their husband’s funeral pyre. Nanak says: They alone be called ‘satee’, who die from the shock of separation. (M. 3, SGGS, p. 787)

Guru Ram Das, the fourth Sikh Guru, condemned the dowry ritual. He articulated:  

ਹੋਰਿ ਮਨਮੁਖ ਦਾਜੁ ਜਿ ਰਖਿ ਦਿਖਾਲਹਿ ਸੁ ਕੂੜੁ ਅਹੰਕਾਰੁ ਕਚੁ ਪਾਜੋ ॥

Hor manmukẖ ḏāj jė rakẖ ḏikẖālėh so kūṛ ahaʼnkār kacẖ pājo.

A self-oriented person, who offers dowry and makes a show of it, indulges in only false egotism and a worthless display. (M 4, SGGS, p. 79)

Guru Hargobind, the sixth Sikh Guru, bestowing much respect for women, declared, “woman is the conscience of man”. Guru Gobind Singh, the tenth Sikh Guru, made the Khalsa initiation ceremony open to men and women alike, proclaiming a woman being just as worthy. He bestowed the surname Kaur (meaning princess) to all the baptized women. Guru Gobind Singh conferred equality among the Khalsa, men or women, as they both could keep the 5 K’s. He instructed the Khalsa not to associate with kanyapapi (the person who sins against a woman). He also forbade Sikhs to exercise any proprietary rights over women captured in battle; they could not be kept as slaves or wives but were to be treated with the utmost respect [4]. Sikh doctrines also emphasize that both men and women carry the same divine essence. Thereby they possess an equal right to cultivate their spirituality and achieve salvation. Women can participate in all religious, cultural, social, and secular activities.

Even during the Sikh revival movement that started in the 1870s, the Singh Sabha raised its voice against the purdah system, female infanticide, child marriage, sati, bad conditions of widows, the practice of dowry and extravagant expenditure during marriage ceremonies. Remember all this was happening in India’s male-dominated Muslim and Hindu societies hundreds of years before the feminist movement.

SIKH WOMEN MAKING THEIR MARKS – RECENT STORIES AT ASIA SAMACHAR

  1. SKIPPER STEFFI
  2. 2. US GETS FIRST DIRECTLY ELECTED SIKH WOMAN MAYOR
  3. ALL EYES ON NAVJOT KAUR AND HER FINISHING TOUCH
  4. FIRST SIKH WOMEN FROM MALAYA TO STUDY OVERSEAS
  5. SIKH ARMY OFFICER CONQUERS SOUTH POLE, MAKES HISTORY FOR WOMAN OF COLOUR

Equality for women has always been one of the main attributes of Sikhism, and a great number of women have made significant contributions in the past. Sikh history is replete with exemplars that portray women as equal to men in service, devotion, sacrifice, and bravery. A few examples in this regard are Bibi Nanaki, Mata Khivi Ji, Mata Gujari Ji, Mata Sahib Kaur, Mai Bhago, Rani Sahib Kaur, Rani Sada Kaur, and Maharani Jind Kaur. And this progress is continuing. Today, women are playing leadership roles in the Sikh faith, including leading congregations. They work with men in Langar (community kitchen), join the Sangat (congregation) and participate in other social and religious activities in the gurdwaras. They enjoy the same voting rights as men to elect the members of the Shiromani Gurdwara Parbandhak Committee, which administers Sikhs’ places of worship.

Unfortunately, Sikh society has not been able to fully overcome old cultural traditions and live up to the ideals of gender equality taught by Sikh Gurus. Women make up less than 20% of the SGPC members. Most of the Gurdwara managements and the profession of Granthis are primarily male dominated [3]. Ritual services like chaur seva (a ceremonial whisk waving over the Guru Granth Sahib) and Sukh-aasan (protocol followed at the end of the day to “retire” the holy Scripture to a special bedroom called Sachkhand) at Harmandir Sahib are still mostly male-dominated. Besides, Women are still not allowed to assist in carrying the palanquin carrying the holy Sikh Scriptures to and from the Harmandir Sahib. Even though the Sikh religion discards the notion that a menstruating woman is impure, the above situation prevails as patriarchy in Sikh society still holds the same as taboo. It is heartening to note that the Sikh diaspora is taking the lead in opening many aspects of this ritual life for women. Another concern is that sex-selective abortions, driven by a desire for male children, are driving down the sex ratio in Punjab. It is encouraging to note that most Sikh religious organizations, including the Akal Takhat, have spoken up against this practice [6].

In the light of the Sikh doctrines proclaiming the equality of men and women, let us pledge to make this world free from prejudice, irrational traditions, and gender discrimination. Let us strive together to create a world where each woman has easy access to the opportunities to reach her desired potential in life.  

References

  1. Singh, D. P. (2021). Status of Women in Sikh Theology, The Sikh Bulletin, 23 (1) 34.
  2. Sri Guru Granth Sahib (SGGS) (1983). Reprint, S.G.P.C., Amritsar, India. p 1-1430.
  3. Women in Sikhism. (2006, May 26). Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia. Retrieved December 17, 2021, from https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_in_Sikhism
  4. Sikhism religion of the Sikh people. (n.d.). Sikhism Religion of the Sikh People. https://www.sikhs.org/women.htm
  5. Kaur, U. J. (2014, Jan 27). Role and status of women in Sikhism. Gateway to Sikhism. https://www.allaboutsikhs.com/sikh-literature/sikhism-articles/role-and-status-of-women-in-sikhism/
  6. Singh D. P. (2021, March 10). Status of women in Sikh theology. SikhNet. https://www.sikhnet.com/news/status-women-sikh-theology

Dr. D. P. Singh, M.Sc., Ph.D. is Director, Center for Understanding Sikhism, Mississauga, Ontario, Canada. He is a physicist by training, a teacher by profession and a writer by choice. He specializes in writing on Science, Religion and Environmental topics. Email: c4usikhism@gmail.com

RELATED STORY:

Fighting for Sikh Causes in Indian Parliament by Hukam Singh, Kapur Singh and Tarlochan Singh (Asia Samachar, 21 Sept 2021)

ASIA SAMACHAR is an online newspaper for Sikhs / Punjabis in Southeast Asia and beyond.Facebook | WhatsApp +6017-335-1399 | Email: editor@asiasamachar.com | Twitter | Instagram | Obituary announcements, click here 

Karamjit Singh Randhawa (1963 – 2022), Setapak

KARAMJIT SINGH RANDHAWA S/O SHABEG SINGH RANDHAWA & PIRGAS KAUR

29.5.1963 – 27.2.2022

Village: Dhunda

A wonderful person, always with a smile and keeping everyone happy. Someone you enjoy being around.

Wife: Jagir Kaur d/o Harnam Singh

Children / Spouses: Shavinderjit Kaur, Salvinderjit Kaur, Jagjit Singh, Gurjit Singh ( Jetinder Singh Gill son in law )

Grandchildren: Armaanvir Singh Gill, Aishvir Singh Gill, Parisha Kaur, Maya Kaur, Sarabjeet Singh

Cremation / Saskaar: 3pm, 28 February 2022 (Monday), at Jalan Loke Yew Crematorium, Kuala Lumpur.

Cortege leaves from residence at 11, Jalan Kebajikan Satu 25/76A, Taman Sri Muda, Shah Alam, at 12.30pm

Contact:

012-5516004 (Jagjit, son)

014-6206206 (Gurjit, son)

016-6384983 (Jetin, son-in-law)

| Entry: 27 Feb 2022 | Source: Family





ASIA SAMACHAR is an online newspaper for Sikhs / Punjabis in Southeast Asia and beyond.Facebook | WhatsApp +6017-335-1399 | Email: editor@asiasamachar.com | Twitter | Instagram | Obituary announcements, click here |

British Sikh twin brothers smashing it at Muay Thai boxing

0

Jabarjang (left) and Jarnail after winning the IBF u-16 Muay Thai Boxing championship in Mumbai on 19 February 2022. In the middle is medical staff head Berenice Besouf – Photo: Supplied

By Asia Samachar | Britain |

Twin brothers Jarnail Singh Gill and Jabarjang Singh Gill are making history in the world of Muay Thai Boxing. They are probably the first Sikhs to emerge champions. And they are just 13 years-old!

The brothers from Leeds, England, won in their respective categories at the recent International Boxing Federation (IBF) Muay Thai Championship held in Mumbai, India.

Jarnail was crowned new IBF u-16 Muay Thai Boxing Champion in the lightweight category while Jabarjang won in the u-16 bantamweight.

Both twin brothers won in style with KO stoppage in the first rounds of their fights against highly ranked fighters in Mumbai bout on Feb 19.

“They have been training since 2014 at the age of 6 years,” Gururaj Singh Gill, their father who runs a Leeds-based construction company, tells Asia Samachar. “They fight in different categories due to their weights.”

Jarnail Singh Gill (right) in action at the u-16 Muay Thai Boxing Champion in Mumbai on 19 February 2022 – Photo: Supplied

Nicknamed the Twin Stallions, both brothers are also gold medalists for Team Great Britain at the World Championships in Germany in 2019. It was a three-day tournament where they fought over 6 fights each with competitors from around the world.

Both brothers also won the World Kickboxing & Karate Union (WKU) World Cup in Ireland in 2019. They are the current WFMC World Muay Thai Boxing champions. WFMC stands for World Fight Sports & Martial Arts Council.

Jarnail and Jabarjang train at the Kiatphontip Gym under Master Kru Jompop, formerly ranked number one at Rajadamnern Stadium, Thailand and a former South Thailand champion as well as Robin Reid, a former WBC & IBO World Super Middleweight boxing champion.

Gururaj said his children have travelled around the world to compete in high class fights.

They are ambassadors of Las Vegas-based Omni Global Services who take care of well-being while travelling around the world for their fight camps.

The boys’ uncle Jatenderpal Singh Bhullar, previously the 1st Sikh Queen Elizibeth’s Guard from the Scots Guards and who now runs Eton West Constructions in the UK, also attended the fight event in Mumbai.

Jabarjang Singh Gill (right) in action at the u-16 Muay Thai Boxing Champion in Mumbai on 19 February 2022 – Photo: Supplied

RELATED STORY:

Third-generation Sikh boxer wins silver at Malaysia Cup (Asia Samachar, 16 Dec 2021)

ASIA SAMACHAR is an online newspaper for Sikhs / Punjabis in Southeast Asia and beyond.Facebook | WhatsApp +6017-335-1399 | Email: editor@asiasamachar.com | Twitter | Instagram | Obituary announcements, click here 

Deep Sidhu’s final ‘120 hours’ in the eyes of girlfriend Reena Rai

0


By Anandpreet Kaur | India |

These are the final hours of the life and times of Deep Sidhu, a Panjabi actor who catapulted into an influential youth voice in the year-long Indian farmers’ protests, as captured by his girlfriend Reena Rai.

Actor cum political activist Sandeep Singh Sidhu perished in what is officially reported as a car accident a day after Valentine’s Day when he was driving Mahindra Scorpio on the Kundli-Manesar-Palwal (KMP) highway. Reena, seated next to him in the car as they travelled from Delhi to Panjab, survived.

“My beloved Deep, now that your Bhog has touched the world and your soul is at rest, I’m letting the world into a tiny piece of our life,” Reena said in an Instagram entry yesterday (25 February 2022), capturing events leading to the tragic Feb 15 incident.

She wrote: “In 120 hours, I flew to India, celebrated Valentine’s Day, got into a fatal car accident, lost the love of my life, ended up in the hospital, and flew back home broken.”

Towards the end of the 875-word entry, she said: “The only comfort I have is knowing your death has inspired a generation to pick up your cause and to shape the future of Punjab. You always told me that great change requires great sacrifice.” The note was accompanied by a couple of photos of them together.

Deep and Reena became a hit jodi (couple), as badged by some media, after they co-starred in the 2018 film Rang Panjabi, followed by shooting of another project titled Desi. Rang Panjabi was Reena Rai’s debut film after she won the Miss South Asia beauty pageant in 2014.

Below is Reena Rai’s full message:

120 Hours.

That’s all the time it took from living a life full of joy and love to experiencing heart wrenching loss. In 120 hours, I flew to India, celebrated Valentine’s Day, got into a fatal car accident, lost the love of my life, ended up in the hospital, and flew back home broken.

I know everyone has a lot of questions and I’ll do my best to answer them.

Deep and I fell in love after meeting on the set of Rang Punjab in 2018. Deep was the most loving, compassionate and selfless person that I had ever met. His passion for life was contagious. Our friendship grew throughout the making of the movie. During breaks from filming, we would spend hours chatting about our lives, friends, families, and dreams. After Rang Punjab wrapped, we stayed in touch and our friendship blossomed into love. We became inseparable. Deep and my family shared laughs together exploring San Francisco and attending my sister Rummi’s wedding. Deep and I would also visit his brother Mandeep’s family in Ludhiana and would stay up late playing with his kids. Our future together was beginning to take shape.

Last Sunday, I flew into Delhi to begin a few projects and celebrate Valentine’s Day with Deep since we missed celebrating it last year. It was a magical day that I will always hold dear to my heart. The next day we decided to head out to Punjab before heading home to Mumbai. We packed up our luggage, loaded the Scorpio, and headed out. Deep and I chatted for some time and then I decided to take a nap since I was still jet lagged. I reclined my seat back, took off my shoes, and fell asleep. All I remember next is being thrown violently from the seat, hitting the airbag, and landing in the foot rest. My back felt like it was on fire and I was in complete and utter shock. I looked up and saw Deep not moving. I prayed to Waheguru and asked him to give me the strength to help him. I kept yelling “Deep, Wake Up!” I was finally able to get up and move his chin towards me. The right side of his face was completely covered in blood. I felt faint, leaned back and started yelling for help. A bystander came and pulled me out of the Scorpio and laid me on the ground.

While lying there, I had someone call Mandeep and begged whoever was around to help Deep. He was stuck in the front seat and the car cabin was crushed around him. After the first ambulance arrived, I was put in there for what felt like 30 minutes. I watched as bystanders and paramedics frantically tried and were finally successful in freeing Deep from the Scorpio. The paramedics rushed Deep into the second ambulance and we were both transported to the hospital. I kept asking anyone I saw how Deep was doing and everyone kept telling me he was okay. Something in my heart was telling me differently and I kept calling out for him. My family in the US didn’t tell me about Deep’s passing until I was able to have a family member next to me in the hospital. Finally, after about five hours, my cousin arrived at the hospital from Punjab. At my family’s direction, I was transferred to the National Heart Institute in Delhi to get more tests done. It was there that my family told me Deep had passed. Heartbroken and in shock, I was discharged from the hospital. At the urging of my family, I flew back to the US to receive medical care and am now recovering at home from a spinal fracture. My family hopes that a complete inquiry will be made into Deep’s cause of death and ways to prevent this tragic accident from happening to anyone else.

As I sit here writing this post and watching Deep’s Bhog, the outpouring of love the world has shown for him has been so comforting to me and my family. We miss him dearly. I would like to thank all of the Sangat that have showed Deep so much love and respect. I also want to thank everyone in the world who has held prayers and candlelight vigils to honor Deep. He really did believe you all were his family and I know he is watching all this from above in awe.

To my Deep, I’m dead inside without you. I miss you so much. You promised me you wouldn’t leave me in any lifetime but you left me here all alone. I’m broken. I’m sad. I’m mad. Why did you leave me? I just want you in my arms and to hear you whisper I love you my jaan. The only comfort I have is knowing your death has inspired a generation to pick up your cause and to shape the future of Punjab. You always told me that great change requires great sacrifice. So go my jaan, fulfill your destiny. Inspire the world. I’ll miss you and will forever love you. Soul mates don’t leave each other. I’ll see you on the other side.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa
Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh





RELATED STORY:

Actor and farmers’ protest lightning bolt Deep Sidhu dies in car crash (Asia Samachar, 16 Feb 2022)



ASIA SAMACHAR is an online newspaper for Sikhs / Punjabis in Southeast Asia and beyond.Facebook | WhatsApp +6017-335-1399 | Email: editor@asiasamachar.com | Twitter | Instagram | Obituary announcements, click here