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Good to be back in Vancouver and march with my regiment, says Manjeet Singh Vinning

Manjeet S Vinning – Photo: Twitter post

“Good to be back in Vancouver and march with my regiment, the British Columbia Regiment (DCO), on Remembrance Day. Lest we forget.” – Tweet and photo on 12 Nov 2018 by Lt. Manjeet Singh Vinning, the director of operations to the Canada Minister of National Defence Hon Harjit S Sajjan. Manjeet, a reservist in B.C., took up the post at the defence ministry in 2016.

 

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California Sikh farmer still working at 105

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California farmer Bakhtawar Singh Brar still working at 105 – Photo: KGET.com video

“Activity is life, life is activity. The people that kill time, they kill themselves. Retiring means what? Lying in bed. Farmers and soldiers never die in bed.”

Bakhtawar Singh Brar celebrated his birthday from his desk, at work. The man hasn’t stopped working a day in his life and he says work is what keeps him alive, reports KGET.com.

The decorated Indian army veteran moved to the U.S. in 1980 when he was 68. He was told, at his age, he should apply for a pension.

“I said ‘thank you very much ma’am, I don’t need it,” the newspaper quoted him. “She said, ‘why?’ I said, ‘what have I done for this country, nothing. I don’t want to be a burden here. I will earn it if I need it.”

He then started working as a farm worker to earn a pension for himself and his wife. Bakhtawar has been overseeing his son’s agriculture company since 2006.

“A person is never useless in their life, they may go down in performance, but everyone can do something for their country,” he said.

Check out the KGET video here.

 

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Canada MP Raj Grewal quits over ‘gambling problem’

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Raj Grewal shared this photo in October 2018, reflecting on the 2015 victory -Photo: Raj Grewal Twitter

After a euphoric victory at the 2015 polls, Raj Singh Grewal’s temporary exit from politics must be a let down to the Liberal Party with illustrious Sikh ministers like Harjit Singh Sajjan and Navdeep Singh Bains.

Raj ranked among the five turbaned Sikhs among the 19 Indo-Canadians who won in the Canada general election 2015. His party went to form the government with Justin Trudeau as the prime minister.

On Thursday (22 Nov 2018), the lawyer turned politician announced in a statement that he was resigning due to “personal and medical reasons.”

“This has been a decision I’ve struggled with for some time now and one I made with great difficulty and real sadness. But I feel I need this time to focus on my health and family,” the statement said.

“I am grateful for your unwavering support over the past three years. Brampton East is and will always be a special part of my life. I will continue to work for this community and am hopeful I will have the opportunity to serve you again.

In a report, Global News said that the Prime Minister’s Office had said that the former MP’s Raj abrupt resignation was because of a “gambling problem.”

In a statement released on Friday, officials said Grewal, who represented the Toronto-area riding of Brampton East, is currently receiving treatment.

“Earlier this week, Mr. Grewal told us that he is undergoing serious personal challenges, and that he is receiving treatment from a health professional related to a gambling problem that led him to incur significant personal debts,” the report quoted an email attributed to an unnamed PMO spokesperson.

In a Tweet on Thursday, Trudeau said: “Yesterday, I learned that Raj Grewal is facing serious personal challenges, and today he announced he is stepping down as Member of Parliament for Brampton East. While it may have been a difficult decision, it was the right one. I hope he receives the support he needs.”

 

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Hah? Guru Nanak Parkash Dehara?

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By Dya Singh | AUSTRALIA | OPINION |

I am mystified!

I am normally aware of Sikh historical ‘maneuvering’ for the last 60 odd years of my life simply because I do read a fair amount about the changes in Sikh thought and I belong to a family of a parcharak (Giani Harchand Singh ‘Bassian’) and family members who are all involved in Sikhi furtherance in one way or another including thinker and writer S. Gurmukh Singh OBE who writes a regular column in UK-based Punjab Times.

I remember that not long ago we celebrated Vesakhi on 13 April. We now do so on 14 April. We never used to sing ‘Agea bheyi akal ki..’ etc. after the Ardaas in gurdwaras. Now we do. We had no qualms about singing ‘Deh Shiva’ before. Now brothers have become enemies on this issue!

There was never an issue whether the Dasam Granth was ‘the’ Guru. (It is NOT.) Today we have pitched battles and beard pullings and violence on the issue.

I remember the maneuvering of the rules of the Anand Karaj, the Sikh sacred wedding ceremony for who could go through this ceremony. In my earliest consciousness, both bride and groom ‘had’ to be ‘amritdhari’ to undergo this ceremony, or at least have gone through the ‘amrit sanchar’ ceremony.

Then, in the 1960’s and 1970’s, it was decided that the couple were asked before the ceremony if they had undergone ‘amrit sanchar’ and if not, to do so at the first opportunity. In the 1980’s it was decided that the couple should not be embarrassed by asking such an awkward question in sangat but advised to undergo the amrit sanchar.

In the 1990’s the question was completely erased. Today, it is a free for all, except for ‘militant’ action by some because generally gurdwaras are only concerned with income rather than the rules and maryada.

Another example is that before the 1980’s there was no accepted understanding that Baba Budha was the first ‘Granthi Sahib’ of the Aadh Granth. From then he was annointed as the ‘First Granthi Sahib’ paving the way for our now ‘priestly class’ – the go-betweens between us Sikhs and our Guru – Guru Granth Sahib Ji. We get this ‘go-between’ to do our sehaj paaths, akhand paaths, hukmnamas and ardaaas for any occasion and any other ‘religious’ ceremonies for cash. They became our formal ‘pundits’.

(I say the above even though my own father was virtually forced into the position of a ‘Granthi Sahib’, even though he arrived in the old Malaya as a government-paid Punjabi teacher and parcharak (stationed in Raub). He was always careful to tell the sangat that he was merely the ‘vizier’, the caretaker of the Granth and not a go-between, between the sangat and the Guru. He taught devotees how to do paath. He brought Sikhs closer to the Guru Ji. He taught Punjabi and he was a great parcharak and kirtenia.)

Now, coming to Guru Nanak Gurpurab. I am, this year, hearing that it is not a Gurpurab any more, but Guru Nanak Parkash Purab – the day Baba Ji supposedly received his enlightenment. This is new to me! There is a longish current article around by Dr. Harbans Lal espousing this with various quotes etc. from past supposed Sikh historians and so on.

I have some reflections on this ‘development’ but I can see positives. I have long known that historically it is more likely that Guru Nanak Ji was born on or around Vesakhi and the date of his birth was ‘moved’ to November to coincide with some Hindu festivals, to shepherd Sikhs away from the Hindu festivals towards celebrating Guru Ji’s ‘Gurpurab’. Now, with this development of Guru Nanak Parkash Devas, perhaps we can spread the message of the two fold significance of Vesakhi – that of Khalsa Day and also Guru Nanak Ji’s birthday!

It is just like the controversy of the laying of the foundation stone of Darbar Sahib supposedly by Sayeen Mian Mir. This, it now appears, is more a sentiment of the Sikh quom espousing the greatness of Guru Arjan Dev Ji of humbly and graciously asking his great friend Pir Mian Mir to lay the foundation stone of Darbar Sahib and further enhancing the ‘sarbat dha bhalla’ sentiment of the Sikhs. Noble move and one we quote at inter-faith meetings to great effect. (There is no visible sign of any foundation stone of Darbar Sahib!)

So now, Khalsa Ji, let it be known that Guru Nanak Sahib’s actual birth date is Vesakhi and his ‘Parkash Dehada’ is generally in November!!!

I also applaud Malaysian Gurdwara Council (MGC) on celebrating Khalsa Day next year and Guru Nanak Sahib Ji’s 550th. Grand Gurpurab on 20 April 2019 in Kuala Lumpur after prolonged celebration which have already started in many gurdwaras in Malaysia. NOT A BAD IDEA GLOBALLY!


Malaysian-born Dya Singh, who now resides in Australia, is an accomplished musician and a r
oving Sikh preacher. The Dya Singh World Music Group performs full scale concerts on ‘music for the soul’ based on North Indian classical and semi-classical styles of music with hymns from mainly the Sikh, Hindu and Sufi ‘faiths’. He is also the author of SIKH-ING: Success and Happiness. He can be contacted at dyasingh@khalsa.com

* This is the opinion of the writer and does not necessarily represent the views of Asia Samachar.

 

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If this be love…..

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By I.J. Singh & Neena I. Singh | OPINION |

It’s just about 550 years ago that Guru Nanak appeared. He trod the earth and founded a movement – a way of life – that we now treasure and honor as Sikhi or Sikhism. Over 25 million Sikhs and their friends worldwide are abuzz with celebrations. They capture our hearts and minds like nothing else as the coming days and weeks will continue to inspire us.

There were two religions extant at that time in the Indian Subcontinent – Islam and Hinduism.  Muslims were a minority but were the politically dominant power – the rulers.  Hindus were the majority by a magnitude but as subjects little better than slaves.  The two faiths were totally at loggerheads with each other.  Muslims were bent on converting the Hindus.  Hindus were equally adamant and wanted to live by their own traditional caste-driven realities and remained largely resistant to reformation of societal problems that had emerged over time.

History and tradition tell us that Nanak’s message was uniquely inclusive of the two rich but antagonistic faiths.  In many ways his vision brought the two to common ground. The Sikh scripture, Guru Granth, contains the writings not only of the Sikh Founder-Gurus but also Muslim and Hindu saints of the time. This was necessary if the three – Hindus, Muslims and Sikhs — were to live together as neighbors in the same land, keeping in mind Guru Nanak’s teachings that regardless of our religious label we are all children of the same Infinite Creator. Had there been easy access to writings of Christian and other faiths at that time, surely, they, too, would have been included in the Guru Granth.

History also tells us that both Hindus and Muslims were deeply attracted to Nanak’s universal message.  The irrefutable proof of this assertion is the fact that when Guru Nanak shed his mortal coil at Kartarpur, the commune that he built on the bank of the River Ravi, a serious conflict broke his followers apart and shattered the peace between them.  His Muslim followers wanted to bury him as per Muslim rites while his Hindu disciples wanted to cremate him according to Hindu traditions.

Tradition tells us that when they pulled back the cover on Nanak’s bier, the body had disappeared; only some flowers remained.  And then humans did as humans will.  They angrily divided the flowers and tore into two halves the cloth that had covered Guru Nanak’s body.  Muslim followers of Guru Nanak did to their half of the sheet what Muslim rites dictated, his Hindu followers cremated their half a la Hindu rites.  On one bank of the river Ravi Muslims built their memorial to Nanak, across the river on the other bank Hindus built their own marker.

Soon enough, history tells us the river Ravi flooded and washed away both memorials to oblivion, reducing both to dust.

Now that, in my view, is divine justice.

But where are we today, nearly 500 years later?  What realities stare at us today? What happened in the half a millennium? Open corridors with closed minds would never be the solution. Life offers some enduring lessons.

Centuries of religious tensions, wars and bloodshed followed. Sikhi does not believe in proselytizing or converting others.  Let them make own choices; the Sikh way is open to all who come.  Sikhi is a peaceful way of life. Sikhs are pacifists but never passive; they had to take up arms in self-defense, and accumulated an unparalleled record of sacrifice and martyrdom in the cause of justice and human rights for all, regardless of their religious label. Islamic presence in India had become known for forced conversions.  When the British left India in 1947, the country was divided on the basis of religion into a nominally secular India and a Muslim Pakistan. The partition of the country followed some of the bloodiest rioting and killings of civilians that the world has ever seen.

Now, free India has newly spawned a muscular movement — Hindutva— that seems bent upon redefining India’s secular principles and credentials into a defiantly Hindu identity to the detriment of its many visible and vibrant minorities. Should we not fittingly label this as personification and abject proof of vilification and diminishing of others, if not hatred?  The resulting nations – India and Pakistan that have fought many wars to the detriment of each other — both neighboring countries and nuclear powers –, mutually hostile forever?

On a lighter note I am reminded of some contemporary American humor. Years ago, a very close friend said to me “I love you to pieces.” And, on one of my darker days, tongue in cheek, I couldn’t resist the tasteless rejoinder: “Thank you, but I am not quite ready to celebrate my pieces yet.”

Certainly we, Sikhs revere Guru Nanak and would willingly die to defend his message – history is witness to that. But in many ways, don’t we often think if Guru Nanak’s universal vision for the people deserves to be rediscovered? That would be the most appropriate celebration.

For what time has done to Guru Nanak’s timeless message, sometimes I wonder: If this be love, pray tell me, what then is hate?

[I.J. Singh is a New York based writer and speaker on Sikhism in the Diaspora, and a Professor of Anatomy. Email: ijsingh99@gmail.com]

* This is the opinion of the writer, organisation or publication and does not necessarily represent the views of Asia Samachar.

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40 Malaysian gurdwaras kick-start year-long Nanak 550 celebration

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Joginder Singh Vedanti receiving sirapao from MGC president Jagir Singh (right). Also present Gurdwara Sahib Subang president Amrick Singh (left). – Photo: Asia Samachar

Some 40 gurdwaras have indicated that they would conduct the congregational reading of Japji Sahib to kick start the year-long celebration of Guru Nanak’s 550 birth next year.

It is part of the run-up to the Grand Celebrations of 550th Sri Guru Nanak Dev Ji Parkash Purab next year led by the Malaysian Gurdwaras Council (MGC).

The official launch of the event was marked with a speech by former Akal Takht Jathedar Giani Joginder Singh Vedanti at Gurdwara Sahib Subang Jaya today (23 Nov 2018). It was followed by kirtan and congregational reading of Japji Sahib at 11.30am.

Gurdwaras celebrating on the 25 November have been encouraged to recite the congregational Japji Sahib Ji.

“We have drawn up a year-long events to celebrate the 550th parkash dehara in a major way next way. One of the programmes lined-up is viakhiaa (discourse) of Japji Sahib by trained lecturer whom we will invite from Punjab,” Jagir told Asia Samachar. “The idea is to not merely read the bani to understand the gian that Guru Nanak bestowed upon us via this bani (scripture).”

The year-long programme is supported by Khalsa Diwan Malaysia (KDM), Tatt Khalsa Diwan Malaysia and Sant Sohan Singh Memorial Society Malaysia.

 

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Sukhdev Kaur (1938-2018), Port Klang

AKHAND PATH: 29 Nov – 1 Dec 2018 at Gurdwara Sahib Port Klang, Selangor. Akhand Path commences at 9am, followed by path da bhog at 12pm on 1 Dec 2018 | MALAYSIA

Sukhdev Kaur (1938-2018), Port Klang

SUKHDEV KAUR W/O MAHINDER SINGH

She has been a pillar of the Sikh community in Port Klang and also her neighborhood.

Born: 9 May 1938

Departed: 21 November 2018

Husband: Mahinder Singh

Children / Spouses:

Sarjit Kaur

Manmohan Singh / Nirmall Kaur

Daljit Kaur / Rado

Grandchildren: Manvina Kaur

Cortege Timing: Cortege leaves 72, Jalan Barus off Jalan Kim Chuan, 42000, Pelabuhan Klang, Selangor at 11am, 23 November 2018 (Friday).

Saskaar / Cremation: 2pm, 23 November 2018 (Friday) at Fairy Memorial Park, 6th Mile, Jalan Meru, Klang, Selangor. Begins with Sukhmani sahib path at 12pm.

Akhand Path: Akhand Path commences at 9am, 29 Nov to 1 Dec at Gurdwara Sahib Port Klang followed by path da bhog at 12pm on 1 Dec 2018.

Contact: 

016-3106880 Kul

016-2600987 Dip

| Entry: 22 Nov 2018  | Source: Community |

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Nagar kirtan with a twist for Guru Nanak parkash dehara in Penang

Penang state exco member Jagdeep Singh Deo joins the nagar kirtan – Photo: Supplied

In conjunction with the 549th Prakash purab of Guru Nanak, Wadda Gurdwara Sahib Penang organised a Nagar Kirtan Shabad Chaunki on Saturday (17 November 2018).

The central part of the procession was the singing of Shabad. They did not take along Sri Guru Granth Sahib as done in some nagar kirtans.

The objective of the Shabad Chaunki was to promote world peace. The participants covered a distance of two and half kilometres over two hours while singing kirtan.

At the same time, a team from Basic of Sikhi UK (M) was around to promote Sikhi awareness to the public. A group called Turbanators tied beautiful and colourful turbans for those interested.

Penang State Government exco and state assemblyman Jagdeep Singh Deo joined the procession. Also present were fellow state assemblymen Ram Karpal Singh, RSN Rayer, Teh Lai Heng and councillor Harvinder Singh.

Sikhs from neighbouring Kulim, Sungai Petani, Ipoh, Butterworth and Penang island had also joined in.

Prior to the Nagar Kirtan, WGS Penang and the Sikh Sangat had organised Vand Shakna Project – feeding the hungry and homeless, as per teaching of Sri Guru Nanak. They served food in the gurdwara and also packed food to be served for people in the streets.

Penang nagar kirtan with shabd chaunki to celebrate Guru Nanak parkash dehara – Photo: Supplied

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UK Kirpan victory: Ministers listen and back Sikh community

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MEETING: A delegation led by MP Preet Kaur Gill (3rd from left) met UK Home Office Minister Victoria Atkins (4th from left) on the kirpan issue – Photo: Sikh Federation UK

London (21 November 2018): MPs and Sikh representatives earlier today met with the Home Office Minister, Victoria Atkins responsible for the Offensive Weapons Bill (OWB) to finalise an agreement to legally safeguard the sale, possession and use of large Kirpans.

The delegation was led by Preet Kaur Gill MP, the Chair of the All Party Parliamentary Group (APPG) for British Sikhs, and two Vice Chairs, Conservative MP Dominic Grieve and Labour MP Pat McFadden, both former Ministers that played a vital part in securing this victory. Dabinderjit Singh and Sukhvinder Singh two of the advisers to the Sikh Federation (UK) and prominent in the Sikh Council UK were also part of the delegation.

Following the successful meeting the government itself agreed to table an amendment to the Bill with an appropriate explanatory note specifically referring to the Kirpan.  The Bill is currently going through Parliament with the third and final reading in the House of Commons expected to be on 27 November.

When the Sikh Federation (UK) and Sikh Network learnt that the OWB if passed would result in all large Kirpans (defined as those with curved blades over 50cm) being made illegal in terms of sale, possession and use they immediately contacted Preet Kaur Gill MP, the Chair of the APPG for British Sikhs.

Realising the significance of the problem the law change would create for virtually all Sikh families Preet quickly mobilised a cross party group of Conservative, Labour, Scottish National Party and Liberal Democrat MPs to put together an amendment to safeguard the larger Kirpan when the third and final reading was originally expected on 22 October.  Preet and other MPs also met with the Home Office Minister, Victoria Atkins responsible for the Bill and Preet also had a one-to-one meeting with Sajid Javid, the Home Secretary.

Both Ministers were fully supportive of the need for Sikhs to have the large Kirpan and instructed officials to meet the APPG and make changes.  Large Kirpans are used in Anand Karaj ceremonies, in Gatka training and demonstrations, in Nagar Kirtans and other processions, used in Amrit Sanchar ceremonies and displayed in front of Guru Granth Sahib Ji at Gurdwaras and in homes.

If the Offensive Weapons Bill had become law without change the possession of a large Kirpan even at home could have resulted in imprisonment of up to 1 year as well as a fine.  It is estimated at least 100,000 Sikh households have one or more large Kirpans at home.

Bhai Amrik Singh, the Chair of the Sikh Federation (UK) said:

“We applaud Sajid Javid and Victoria Atkins for listening and acting so decisively to safeguard the rights of law abiding Sikhs and appreciating the significance of the large Kirpan to the Sikh way of life.”

“Preet Kaur Gill, Dominic Grieve and Pat McFadden have led the campaign expertly supported by the Sikh Federation (UK) advisers. The APPG has done a fantastic job in getting Home Office Ministers to clarify it was never their intention for the Offensive Weapons legislation to impact on large Kirpans.”

“Home Office officials have come up against the powerful Sikh lobby and will hopefully learn lessons that they must consult early with Sikh organisations. The officials now know large Kirpans are essential to Sikhs for reasons of religious observance and this will be reflected in the explanatory note to the new legislation”. – Press statement from Sikh Federation UK

 

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Faith and Fear

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By Jagdesh Singh | OPINION |

If you’ve ever observed when a young toddler is playing, which is their life’s purpose, you’d notice that the child has no fear whatsoever on being harmed physically nor emotionally. This is because she is still learning the pattern that whenever she falls or trips, she would be in pain. And the fear of feeling the pain would slowly grow on her as she grows bigger.

But as she learns this pattern, she also learns that her mother is always there to save her from her fall, to protect her from anyone hurting her. She develops faith in her mother, saving her from falling, avoiding her from feeling pain. And so, you’d notice that some toddlers are fearless, full of faith that there’s always someone there to protect them from pain. Where there’s faith, there’s no fear.

As teenagers, you’d notice that they are reckless, wanting to push boundaries, always trying to discover their own voice, wanting to think for themselves, the world always at their feet. Many still have faith in their parents to help them navigate in life, but their faith in others, like their friends and comrades in the playground and classrooms are growing by the day. To them, their true friends will never betray them, never hurt them emotionally.

They become fearless, rebellious against the adults, discovering their identity in the process.  I can’t remember the number of times I’ve cringed in my adult life remembering how foolish I was tempting life under the guise of being fearless. Nevertheless, I was fearless. Where there’s faith, there is no fear.

As a young adult, I remember being fearless was a lot harder than before. My faith towards those around me was still strong, especially of my parents and close friends, but faith in myself, my abilities was sky high. Equipped with all that is necessary for me to survive in this world, like an education, the dreams were limitless. There wasn’t anybody to answer to but myself, adventure and independence beckoned. I was fearless to see what my youth and my will could potentially lead me to. My faith shifted from the outward, the people around me, to the inward, to my self and my understanding of my abilities. Where there’s faith, there is no fear.

As a father and husband, with greying hair, I now have many that I’m fearful of. From death in itself, to the suffering of my loved ones, the fears are now of outward nature. I fear of losing those of whom I’m attached to, I fear of the unpredictable future, my faith in myself waning, more so of those around me. I fear of failure, of not fulfilling the needs and the wants of my family. I fear of society and what those relevant think of me. I am fearless no more. Where there is fear, there is no faith.

How I wish I was the toddler running off from the stairs into her faithful mother’s arms.

How I wish I was a teenager again, racing and competing with other teenagers, with the support of my faithful friends.

How I wish was the young graduate, working tirelessly into the late night, knowing so well I could depend on myself to faithfully deliver success.

Perhaps, as I learn from them, I would probably understand that I would need to have faith in myself, in the divine in me, to be the mother, the friend and the internal guide. That all that I fear of will remain if I don’t have faith.

Where there’s faith, there’s no fear.

Where there’s fear, there’s no faith.

Jagdesh Singh, a Kuala Lumpur-based executive with a US multinational company, is a father of three girls who are as opinionated as their mother

* This is the opinion of the writer, organisation or publication and does not necessarily represent the views of Asia Samachar.

 

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